Emotional Landscaping

heartmapquoteThe last few months have been a massive change emotionally for me. After deciding to step out on this path of travelling and working abroad I’ve really had to take stock and it’s had a big effect on my thoughts and feelings surrounding what I want for myself and my daughter. I think in a way, entering into the final year of my degree or even just coming back to university after giving birth, has been the biggest catalyst to all this emotional change.

If you’ve had kids then you may have had a similar experience to me, where during the pregnancy and straight after the birth it’s not really possible to really know what you want. I was pretty scared and a lot of things were going on that were outside of my control. I just didn’t know what I wanted pure and simple. I knew what I had wanted in the past intellectually speaking, but it was put on hold in a strange way that I’ve never experienced before. There was an unknown entity on the way and I was really conscious that the minute they came into being and ventured into the outside world things would change – I don’t mean in the obvious ways, I mean more in the sense that there would be a person who would eventually have thoughts and opinions that would change the decisions I was going to make. This mentally put me in some sort of freeze hold and I just couldn’t conceive of much beyond the birth. Even after she was born I spent the usual few weeks recovering and acting like a hormonal wreck and then I started to focus on getting back to university.

It was at this point that I really started to ask myself what I wanted, I found myself caving in to those invisible societal pressures that surround us as parents and even just as people. Those pressures that tell us to conform, take a normal path, provide for our family and not take risks. Despite having never wanted to follow a ‘normal’ path in my life I suddenly found myself looking into ‘normal’ graduate schemes and ‘normal’ jobs. I was convincing myself that having my daughter meant I needed to make the ‘responsible’ decisions and not do the outlandish things I’d always wanted to do. Whilst in the early stages of my pregnancy, Monkey’s Dad and me discussed things that we wanted and we both expressed a wish to travel. I said I wanted to finish my degree and give myself the option of further study, but I said that travel was definitely a part of my future. He seemed to need something more than this and I just couldn’t give it to him. Now, the reasons he decided to leave are way more complex than I can do justice to in a blog post. And I don’t think it would be fair to him to claim that this is all there is to it. But I think a small part of it was that I was too busy trying to control everything, whilst he was too busy trying to force me to commit to things I just wasn’t ready to commit to. We were both panicking and we didn’t know each other well enough and he didn’t give me or himself the chance to find out what we wanted, together as a family. Within weeks of finding out I was pregnant he’d gone. I often wondered what would have happened if we’d just given ourselves the time to get used to the new situation we were in; instead of trying to force each other to be the people we thought we needed the other person to be….

Since that point I have changed and developed so much as a person I’m partly unrecognisable. I’ve gone through such a lot having my daughter on my own and coming to terms with the effect that will have on both out lives. As I said, I really ended up convincing myself that I needed to do the ‘normal’ thing for the sake of my daughter. It was only as I got further down those paths, and truly started looking at things like the NHS graduate scheme or civil service as a realistic option that I knew it was never going to make me happy – and that would make Monkey unhappy. It was this realisation that made me really start thinking about what I actually wanted – and that’s to travel. I know without a doubt that if I get to the end of my life without travelling, without living in another country and possibly without learning another language then it will be my biggest regret. So to allow that to happen whilst knowing that would be a big crime against myself.

A while ago I did a post about how big my safety net should be: http://www.backpacksandbabygrows.com/2014/07/03/how-big-should-a-safety-net-be/ . In this post I discussed giving myself a back up plan that involved completing a Masters at the same time as saving to do a RTW trip, so that if travel didn’t happen I would have other options to fall back on. Options that I actually wanted to take, such as postgrad study. Since writing that post though, I’ve realised that actually, I just want to go. I don’t want any other distraction; I just want to save up as much as I can and head off into the unknown with my wee Monkey. This trip and travelling has somehow evolved into so much more than ‘just’ a trip. I know that thought is probably echoed in the minds of countless other travellers or wannabe travellers. So much so, it’s become clichéd – but it’s clichéd because it rings so true for so many people. For me this trip is about finally starting my life. That probably sounds strange, but I’m a late starter in life – my own potential and personal development has been delayed and diverted time and time again. Mostly due to circumstances out of my control, particularly as a child and teenager. My 20s were spent coming to terms with this, and it’s only been since starting college and going back to university that I’ve become the person I always knew I could be. Having my daughter has finalised that in a way nothing else could. Making these steps to travel and jump out into the deep end, as a single parent is really the first step in what I feel is my ‘true’ life, the life I’m meant to have. So there’s a lot riding on it. It’s not that I don’t want the postgrad stuff anymore, it’s that I’m acutely aware they will be there when I get back, I can do those at any time, anywhere in the world. But it’s travelling that will help me to be who I need to be emotionally; it’s travelling that will let my daughter be the person she can be….

Another thing I’ve slowly admitted to myself is that I don’t want to put monkey into the daily grind that is the school system. I know there are some amazing teachers out there; my sister is one of them. But there’s also some terrible teachers out there and the school system is there to cater for the middle ground; it’s there to create an obedient workforce who behave themselves, turn up on time, don’t question authority and basically live life with a set of blinkers on. The world does not need any more of those people, that I do know – if it’s to survive, if we’re to survive as a species we need the mad, creative, wild and inappropriate types. I know too many people who had every last bit of creativity and individualism drained or pummelled out of them at school, to be OK with signing my child up for that. I really want to do something that probably lies in between home schooling and unschooling – (although as with most of the other unschoolers I’m not that keen on the name, as it implies no learning whatsoever which couldn’t be further from the truth). Admitting this to myself has made me realise that those are my 2 core beliefs and aspirations in my life: travel and home schooling, so the rest just needs to somehow fit around them. Or I need to make it fit around them because in the end it’s me that’s in charge of my life. No one else can do these for me. I would love to start working for myself, writing and making a living by piecing together all my skills in a way that makes me happy. Whether that’s teaching English, writing, doing photography, or a bit of all these things and maybe some other things too, I don’t know. But I’m definitely not a Monday to Friday kind of a woman. I would also love to meet someone who shares my dreams, I’d like to let go enough to fall in love again and maybe (just maybe) expand my little family, as having monkey has been the best decision I ever made. Finally realising that these are the things I truly know has given me emotional freedom that I’ve never felt before. It’s given me a purpose and something to aim at. I don’t need riches (not that I ever wanted them), I do want to have the finances to travel (obviously) and to provide my daughter and myself with a half decent standard of living but beyond that I really don’t care. I don’t want her to grow up in the consumerist mess we have in the UK, where how we view our own worth and the worth of others is somehow inextricably linked to what we own and how much money we have in the bank. I want her to know that there is so much more to life than money and possessions. Poverty is horrific but so is having all the materialistic things you ever wanted, only to realise that you’re still looking for something that can’t be bought and now you’ve not got the time to find it.

So this is where I am today, embarking on this adventure is a strange thing for me at this point in time. I’ve still got a year of my degree to complete. This will undoubtedly be one of the most intense years I ever experience but it’ll be worth every drop of blood, sweat and tears that I shed and have shed over the last 7 years. The RTW trip still feels completely imaginary – because it is. It probably won’t feel in the slightest bit real until I actually book us those tickets, and maybe it won’t feel real until we step off the plane and head into our first country on the list (hopefully China). To keep myself focused on the long-term future I keep looking at this big map online and planning where we’ll go and when, I’m reading all these travel blogs and talking to my closest friends about my plans. But on the flip side, I also have to keep my feet firmly on the ground and focus on the here and now. I HAVE to get this degree; I’ve worked too hard to fall at the last hurdle. Not only that, I know I’m capable of getting a 1st. It’s where my grade point average is lying at the moment and I’d be fibbing if I didn’t say a 1st is what I want. Although saying that, I do now know that it’s not the be all and end all, any degree will be a massive achievement for anyone let alone someone in my position.

So this is my bit of emotional landscaping – making that decision to travel has just brought on an avalanche of life choices and realisations that I could never have expected. I’d love to hear if any of you have had a similar experience in the comments section! I suspect that travel and making those massive decisions takes on this huge role in nearly everyone’s life – especially if it’s something you end up turning into a lifestyle choice rather than just a holiday. I’m so excited already at the thought of the adventures to come and the experiences me and my daughter will have together – I’ll have to increase my vocabulary and powers of articulation just to put into words how I feel when we actually go!!

Somewhere that surprised me – Jersey!


Jersey has it all , stunning ocean views, sunny weather and some major tourist attractions. If it’s not on your list it should be!

A few years ago a friend wanted to go on an impromptu holiday, we had a limited budget and she suggested we go to Jersey. I’d never been, didn’t know much about it and had no opinion either way. I’d been to Guernsey as a child, which

St Matthew's Glass Church featuring glass work by Rene Lalique

St Matthew’s Glass Church featuring glass work by Rene Lalique

was small but warm and pleasant, although there wasn’t a huge amount to do. I suppose I was expecting much the same from Jersey. * I just want to add a wee edit to this, to say that my thoughts about Guernsey are based on my memories of a family holiday when I was about 8 years old; so I’m probably wrong about this. I’m sure there’s actually a fair bit to do here, it’s just my family weren’t exactly active travellers. We spent a large amount of time on a lovely beach and that was all, but this should probably reflect on us and not on Guernsey!

Anyway, I couldn’t have been more wrong about Jersey! It was definitely mild, and very pleasant, but this is one of the most surprising places I’ve visited. It’s full of hidden gems, including historical places of interest due to the Island’s involvement in WWII which shamefully I knew nothing about until this visit. I didn’t even know it was occupied by the Germans for a significant amount of time. It may be because my expectations were so low, but this has got to be one of the best and most family friendly destinations you can visit in the general area of the south of the UK or France – it’s kind of in the middle of nowhere after all. It’ll be more family friendly if you visit in tourist season which I suspect runs from around April to September as this means all the tourist season bus routes will be up and running and you’ll probably experience some nice weather. Check out http://www.jersey.com or http://www.jerseytravel.com for loads of info on what to do.

The Gerald Durrell Conservation Park

The Gerald Durrell Conservation Park

I did my usual bit of research before we left and had a pre-prepared list of things we could do, I’d discovered that the Gerald Durrell animal conservation park is on Jersey – it seems unfair to call it a zoo as it is way way more ethical and animal centred than any zoo I’ve visited before. I’m not a fan of zoos in general as their main focus is on profits and not the welfare of the animals – I don’t visit them anymore unless they’re rescue centres catering for animals who are unable to live in the wild or if they do some seriously special conservation work like the Durrell Foundation do. The Durrell Park is completely set up to conserve and breed endangered animals; they have one of the most successful breeding programs around and grow all their food for the animals on organic farms. The animals are not forced in any way to cater to visitors and the only time you are guaranteed to see anything is around feeding time, other than that all the enclosures are designed for the comfort and happiness of the animals, not the happiness of the visitors. They have meerkats, orang-utans and silverback gorillas to name a few, but none of the more controversial animals like elephants, which are well known to be extremely unhappy and have short lifespans in zoos as they need huge areas for roaming and constant company of other elephants in order to survive. This place is a must see for anyone who visits Jersey and/or champions animal welfare. They also run a lot of research programs aimed at gaining an insight into the issues facing endangered species and how we as humans can help them. If you are studying in this area you can even apply for an internship and help with the research program. Check out http://www.durrell.org for more info.

The next place on my list was a lavender farm – neither me or my friend were that fussed if I’m honest, it was probably the

The Lavender Farm

The Lavender Farm

least exciting place to visit (or so we thought), but we had the time and it was on a bus route, as is everything – one of the nice things about Jersey is that in a week you can do all the tourist attractions without charging round and feeling stressed, whilst also enjoying the beauty of the Island. Anyway, the Lavender Farm was the most surprising place we went to. It was absolutely stunning, smelt amazing (as you’d imagine), and had a really peaceful atmosphere. We both loved it and actually thought it was the best thing we did by far – possibly because we were so pleasantly surprised by it. There’s more info to be found at http://www.jerseylavender.co.uk they also have a fabulous shop selling all the locally produced items. On the lavender farm hidden away is also a delightful gem called Reg’s Fairy Garden. Run by Reg (of course) who we met, a lovely older man who takes care of birds and animals and created a cute fairy garden for kids and adults to

Reg's Fairy Garden

Reg’s Fairy Garden

enjoy. It’s not a playground but a place to enjoy some tranquillity and enjoy looking at the pond and waterfall. Reg also does charity work – have a read about what he does here: http://www.reg-fairygarden.co.uk

The major attraction on the Island has got to be the Jersey War Tunnels, these are really impressive and are cut into the mountain. They were built by European slave labour and remain the largest permanent reminder of the 5 year German occupation. It’s full of artefacts, information and personal stories, I found it completely fascinating and the setting just makes it feel so authentic. I love historical settings that just immerse you in the stories simply with the environment they’re in. The space was used as a war hospital originally. One of the really special moments for me on this trip was seeing a little rowing boat that was the vessel the only successful escape to the UK was made in. A young guy rowed all the way from Jersey to the south coast of England in it – many tried and failed and died but he was successful. We were exceptionally lucky enough to meet the young man’s granddaughter in our hotel, she’d come to see the boat and I was just blown away by this meeting!

The entrance to the Jersey War Tunnels - literally cut into the mountain

The entrance to the Jersey War Tunnels – literally cut into the mountain

There’s plenty of other historical things around the Island all related to their experiences during the 2nd World War. It really makes you think coming here, because they were so close to us geographically but had such a drastically different perspective of the war. A very humbling experience!

We also paid a visit to one of the Island’s 2 castles – Mont Orgueil Castle. It was very higgledy piggledy with loads to explore and discover – perfect for adventurous kids and adults. It’s right up on a hill so you get some amazing views of the ocean too. There’s a really beautiful bus ride to get there too. If you really like castles or have more time then you can go to Elizabeth Castle as well.

Another surprising little place we went to was the specialised Eric Young Orchid Foundation – it was a bit of a trek, requiring 2 different bus journeys and a walk but worth it in my opinion. They have one of the largest and finest orchid collections in the world – you’ll see some incredible flowers here. Even if flowers aren’t really your thing I think this place is worth a look. The collection has won tons of awards and is recognised worldwide as one of the best in existence. My absolute favourite one was an orchid that looks like a wee monkey’s face, but you’ll find ones that look like ballerinas amongst other things as well. Check out http://www.ericyoungorchidfoundation.co.uk for all the information.

Monkey Orchids!

Monkey Orchids!

I’ll be honest as I can’t really remember any major foodie places of interest but I was with someone who wasn’t that fussed about where we ate or drank – however there was a nice coffee shop called The Curiosity Coffee Shop in St Helier. They’re open 7am-7pm and you’ll find it on 14 Sand Street. Check out http://www.facebook.com/CuriosityCoffeShop for more info.There are also some fabulous and unique jewellery shops on Jersey – locally sourced pearls are a big thing. Also you’ll find the Catherine Best jewellery shop in a windmill in St Peter – extremely expensive but worth a look just for the artistry. Another fabulous hidden delight is Saint Matthew’s Glass Church featuring some awe inspiring glass work by Rene Lalique – the entire interior is basically all glass fully designed by the artist himself. It’s on a bus route so easy to get to. Have a look here for all the info you need: http://www.historyhouse.co.uk/articles/glass_church.html

If you haven’t heard of him, then Lalique is more famous for his jewellery and ornamental creations so this church is a real treat for art lovers.

Jersey is just one surprise after another with unique and quirky things dotted all around the Island – you’ll find what is apparently the largest shell garden in the world here, take a look if you have time as it’s really cute and someone has put an awful lot of effort into building it. There’s information here if you want to read more http://www.jersey.co.uk/attractions/shellgarden/

As you’ve probably gathered Jersey is filled to the brim with things to do, and it’s all extremely family friendly. It of course has lots of beaches and my friend and I hired bikes and rode around the town a lot. Be warned though, if you want to bike the whole Island it’s pretty hilly – so make sure your thigh muscles can cope!

Mont Orgueil Castle

Mont Orgueil Castle

Mine definitely couldn’t although I could probably do it now as I’m much fitter than I used to be and spend a lot of time in the gym biking. The only thing I’d do differently is that we stayed in a hotel that was about a 15 minute drive from town.

Next time I’d stay somewhere more central like St Helier – this is where the action is at, and late at night when we’d been out for a meal and a drink there were no buses back so we ended up spending unnecessary money on cabs. The Island is popular with retirees so the hotels are generally clean and quiet but also family friendly – it’s not exactly a stag party destination! France is also a daytrip away so if you have the unlikely event that you run out of things to do on Jersey you can always nip across and pay the French a visit. In summer you’re more likely to get some nicer weather here than most UK destinations too.


A beautiful miniature shell chapel

Jersey has definitely been my biggest surprise so far and I can’t recommend it enough; not just for families though but for anyone who fancies a relaxing break away with lots to see and do.

The largest shell village in the world

The largest shell garden in the world

Baby Wearing For The Traveller


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I thought I’d do a post about my thoughts and recommendations for baby carriers. This could be for their general use or for something more specific to the traveller. This is mostly because now my monkey is nearly 2 I’ve become pretty knowledgeable about some of the carriers on offer and i have strong opinions about some of them (good and bad). I also recently had some amazing service from the woman who makes my favourite carrier so I thought it’d be a good time to share my experience of her carriers as although she has a big fan base, I believe she mostly gets her business through word of mouth and I want to do my part as her carriers are simply the best. More on that later….. So, I’ll give a summary of the carriers Ive used, let you know why I either like or don’t like them and try to give them a score out of 10. The thing with baby carriers is that they are probably incredibly personal (which is why my favourite is so damn good as they’re custom made); but this does mean that not everyone will agree with me I’m sure – especially on the ones I either hate or think are over rated. I’m sure some people have had a really good experience with these carriers, they’re just not for me.

Woven Wraps: I never liked the great big pieces of material that you have to wrap around in some special and seemingly complicated way – i wish I did like them as those mums always look so bloody cool and capable – I think if you can master the art of these it’s like some kind of badge to say you’re a parent who can cope with anything; hence, they just made me feel inadequate! Possibly if I’d persevered with them I’d have got the hang of it but I was on my own and they just frustrated me, so I gave up. This led me to try the alternatives, that were as close to possible in that traditional design because I do like the closeness they give and how comfortable the babies generally look in them. I think if I were to have another I might try a big stretchy or woven wrap again or a ring sling but we’ll see.

The Baby Bjorn (stock image)

The Baby Bjorn (stock image)

Baby Bjorn: So the 1st carrier I used after giving up on the big strips of material was the Baby Bjorn – this was lent to me by a friend and it was all I had. They are mid range price, ranging from about £50 but go up to £120. I was lent the Baby Bjorn Active carrier. These are the carriers you see about quite a lot and Dads seem to like them. Baby can face inwards or outwards. I’m not into the judgemental thing over other peoples choices in the slightest but I know the ‘baby wearing’ fan base say that having baby facing outwards all the time can mean they get overloaded with sensory information and it’s better to have them facing in so they can look about if they want but also cuddle up and sleep or just get a break from the constant environmental input they face. I kinda get this argument and whilst she was little I always had my monkey inward facing and when she was bigger I had her on my back so she can also cuddle in. I’ll be honest – I’m not a fan of this carrier at all, I think it’s over rated and over used. The baby’s entire weight is on its crotch which is OK when teeny but I don’t think that’s great as they get heavier. It doesn’t allow for a natural C shape spinal position for the baby either which is the recommendation. Also even when my monkey was small (under 3 months) it wrecked my back. I would get back pain within about 15 minutes of using it, friends have experienced something similar too. I would give this carrier 4/10, maximum. So I moved on…..I wanted something that was more natural and allowed baby to have that natural seated position and I wanted her weight on her bum not her crotch.

Baba Sling: Before I really found something like this I was very kindly given a baba sling as a gift this is a kind of pouch sling. It looks

The baba sling in the hip position - you can even tell from the image that there's pressure on her shoulder during use!

The baba sling in the hip position – you can even tell from the image that there’s pressure on her shoulder during use! (Stock image from babasling site)

great and on paper ticks lots of boxes. They have great PR and a good website. It’s a one shoulder carrier and can have baby in lots of positions that change as your child does. Again – I didn’t really like this in practice. When they’re newborns you’re meant to be able to kind of lie baby down in it in a cradle position but I just couldn’t get monkey comfortable in a safe position; her chin always seemed to be forced to her chest which looked like it was restricting her breathing – something the instruction leaflet warned about. It just made me feel panicky when using it. The instructions were difficult and it was a right faff just to get started. Almost so much so that I sort of gave up – anyone who has kids will testify that in those first few weeks everything can kind of feel like a bit of a stress and anything that made my life harder not easier got chucked to one side. On my own it’s the last thing I wanted and I’m sure that’s the same even with couples who are together at home for the first few weeks. Eventually I went back to it when monkey was bigger and could support her head more and the hip position (pictured) was OK, but when she was bigger, she was of course heavier and this wasn’t comfortable with the one shoulder style after about 20 minutes of carrying her. This sling costs about £70 and I didn’t think it was worth it at all – don’t bother, get something else in my opinion. I lent it to a friend to see if she’d have more luck when she had her baby and she actually had to wait for me to go round and show her how to use it as she couldn’t work the instructions out either. Neither of us are daft – even with baby brains! I don’t think she used it for long if at all…. I’d give the baba sling 3/10 as it was actually less practical than the Baby Bjorn and not worth the money.

Palm and Pond Mei Tai

Palm and Pond Mei Tai

Mei Tai Sling: I was then recommended trying a Mei Tai style carrier so I ordered a Palm and Pond Mei Tai sling from Amazon. This cost £24.99 and was the best sling up until now. The mei tai is traditional Asian inspired sling and comes in all different kinds based around one general shape. There’s some info here and you can see how to use the sling… http://www.meitaibaby.com/index.html Baby has a natural C shape spinal curve and their weight is on their bum. It has a main panel and 4 long, usually padded ties that go around your waist and over the shoulders. Baby can be carried on the front or back once they can sit up alone. Because I am prone to back ache which is worse with front wearing, I had monkey on my back as soon as she was big enough and this worked perfectly for me for quite a long time. It was great value, comfortable and secure. It’s the style I’d probably go with for front wearing from birth if I decided not to brave the ring sling or woven wrap. With the palm and pond, the only thing I found was that once she got heavier and heavier the ties weren’t padded enough and so they dug into my shoulders. This eventually got uncomfortable so I had to find something different, but had I owned this from birth I’d have got amazing value out of it for the money as I got decent value out of it anyway. It also showed me that what I needed was a waist and chest strap to distribute the weight more evenly. I even managed to sell it on Ebay for £20 so managed to make most of my money back. For those other single parents out there or just parents who generally spend the day alone, I was shown this youtube video for instructions on how to get baby on your back and into the sling with no help – it’s the technique I use to this day. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfck0-x7Z3E I used the mei tai all the time and used to walk for at least  45-60 minutes before my back started to ache a bit – but I would consider going for this long about the normal time you should carry a weight for before having a rest. If I can use a carrier for an hour before needing to take baby off then I’m happy. I would give this carrier 8/10 – just because it didn’t quite work for me as baby got heavier – really though, considering the low cost if I’d had it from birth I’d be giving it a 9/10.

Madame GooGoo Full Buckle: Whilst taking my monkey to nursery in the Mei Tai I saw a woman using what looked like a great carrier – it was the mei tai

One of the fabulous Madame GooGoo creations

One of the fabulous Madame GooGoo creations

style but had a full buckle arrangement so a proper waist strap with buckle and a chest strap – kind of like the hiking rucksacks but using the traditional style. It looked amazing and the baby looked super happy and comfortable so I asked the lady where it was from. She told me it was a Madame GooGoo – I had to double check that name with her as it sounded strange and I’d never heard of her. I couldn’t find a website and eventually had to look on Facebook where I found her page. The lady who makes these carriers is called Aga and she operates from Poland. I can’t stress enough how amazing they are. However, after seeing the carrier in person I was hoping to get one pretty quickly as my Palm and Pond was getting uncomfortable. I emailed off and got in touch with Justyna who I think runs all the admin side of it. I explained what I saw the lady wearing and said I really wanted the waist and chest strap as I knew this would give me the back support I needed as I seem to have a fussy back that aches relatively easily and quickly given half a chance. What I found was that Aga makes all the carriers to a specific size, so the main panel is made to be suitable for the size of your baby, and the rest of it is custom fit to your size. They’re adjustable within a range and if you and your partner want to use the same carrier then she can make one that adjusts to fit you both. She does have certain ones in stock but unfortunately none were my waist size so I had to book in for a sew date. BUT this meant I got to choose all my material (there’s some really fabulous materials to choose from too!) and pick everything I wanted in regards to the style. For my 1st carrier I chose a black

Another great design

Another great design

background with brilliant rockets and spaceships and little planet Earths all over it, with a hood which had a rainbow striped material inside it. I had black velvet shoulder straps and waist strap too. I also had extra bum darts and padded sides for extra comfort around monkey’s legs. To have all this custom made for me and monkey plus postage cost me £108 – this can change depending on what you go for design wise and where you are in the world but I think it’s roughly around this price. This was still less than the most expensive Baby Bjorn and I was happy to go for it and pay the money. It’s the best money I ever spent!! It’s the most comfortable carrier and Monkey loves it – she bounces away, falls asleep and basically is such a fan she kicks off if she has to go in the pram now. I can wear the carrier for about 90 minutes by which time I’m ready for a rest anyway. In its current size which was a 15″ back panel I reckon it would have done me from her being about 6-8 months old until now and she’s nearly 2. Admittedly she’s not exactly a huge kid but still. I think the weight limit for a standard carrier would be around 25kg, but Aga also makes pre-school carriers for toddlers if carrying works for you for this long, I suspect their weight limit will be higher due to the larger back panel.

Because Aga is so busy and popular the only downside was that I had to wait a bit for an available ‘sew date’ – although they did slot me in as soon as they could. Whilst I was waiting a friend lent me a Littlelife Explorer rucksack carrier … more on that in a second though. I give the Madame GooGoo carriers a big fat 10/10 – can’t recommend her enough. She also makes the Mei Tai style or anything else you might want, but the full buckle style suits me the most. Find her on Facebook here… http://www.facebook.com/pages/Madame-Googoo-baby-carriers/145687608816099?fref=ts or if you don’t do Facebook you can email her at info@madamegoogoo.com – say you want a carrier and they’ll take you from there.

Little life Explorer Rucksack: Well as I mentioned, whilst waiting for my Madame GooGoo a friend lent me the Littlelife Explorer rucksack – these seem

Littlelife Explorer

Littlelife Explorer

really practical and they have a rain cover, space for stuff underneath, you can attach toys and they seem pretty comfy compared to some. Baby seems to be sat on their bum but very straight so I don’t think you get that C shape curve. For me it hurt my back within about 20 minutes, I think the rucksack is just too heavy on its own without the baby even in it. Also as monkey got heavier it got harder to lift it up safely and put her on my back as you put baby in the carrier before you put it on your back. It does have the waist and chest strap for even weight distribution but like I said, it’s just too heavy. I see a lot of guys with these and I think they just have more upper body strength to deal with them, but not for me. It costs around £100 – due to this I’d give it 6/10 as that’s a steep price to pay if you find it is too uncomfortable to actually use like me – I have a friend who used it regularly though so maybe I’m just a wuss 🙂 So, back to Madame GooGoo and what prompted this post – I recently went out with my monkey to the outdoor playgroup and on the way home I put her on my back and didn’t notice that a shoulder strap was twisted. Now monkey has the tendency to excitedly bounce away on my back when she sees a bus or a lorry or a dog or another baby or ….. you get the picture. This is fine and Madame GooGoo carriers can easily

The design of my lovely new carrier by Madame GooGoo - I had limited choice as I needed one of the ready made ones so I went with something different to my 1st one and had lovely blue caravans to remind me of my wish to travel!

My lovely new carrier by Madame GooGoo – I had limited choice as I needed one of the ready made ones so I went with lovely blue caravans to remind me of my wish to travel!

cope with this but the added pressure on the twisted strap meant that by the time I got home the actual velvet had ripped. I was truly gutted – I now have a kid who hates the pram and no carrier, I also know it would be complete luck if Aga had an in-stock carrier in my size and monkey’s size. I nearly cried as I really didn’t want to wait 2 months for a new carrier plus it was the day before our trip to Carlisle and we had lots of Roman discovery trips planned and a pram wasn’t going to cut it even if I did convince her to go in it. So, two things – first of all a friend very kindly lent me her Ergo Baby carrier that was boxed up as new and waiting for her to give birth. I know how precious the new baby stuff is for your first baby so I was unbelievably grateful to use this in Carlisle (more on the Ergo Baby carrier in a minute). Next I emailed Justyna with a panicked desperate email to see if they could help. Monkey was about a month off me ordering her a new size carrier anyway as she’s grown quite a lot and I wanted one to see us through until she’s properly independently walking at a quicker than snails pace (toddlers have no sense of urgency)! This meant I didn’t mind getting a new one; I was incredibly lucky and there were actually some ready made ones in our size – next up Justyna asked me to send her a picture of the damage to the old carrier as I’d asked if they could fix it. It’s such a beautiful carrier and I want to be able to lend it to friends or sell it on or even use it again myself in the future (you never know). Once she’d seen the damage and verified that I bought the carrier direct from them and not 2nd hand she told me they’d make a new strap and fix the carrier for free and cover all my postage. As you can imagine I’m totally over the moon with this and it just means I’m even more impressed with this lovely lady and her business practice. I think 11/10 is more justified too 🙂

Ergo Baby Carrier Just before I finish I’ll quickly round up with the Ergo Baby carrier-  these come so highly recommended online I was

The Ergo Baby carrier - you can see in the picture that it's quite low down on her back

The Ergo Baby carrier – you can see in the picture that it’s quite low down on her back

actually quite pleased I got the chance to try one out. They are a good carrier and sort of seem similar to the ones Aga makes – the basic model is suitable from birth up to 20kg and can be worn on the front and back. However even though they say they’re suitable up to 20kg I found that when monkey was on my back the carrier only came halfway up her back – looking at pictures on their site this seems kind of standard. What I found was that this means monkey can move about and sway around a lot more. She’s not in danger of falling out or anything but it does mean I was put off balance a lot and this puts extra strain on my back. This led to my back aching quicker than it does with my Madame GooGoo. Also because monkey isn’t quite as secure she won’t sleep in the carrier, whereas with Aga’s carriers the panel goes right up to her neck and the hood provides neck support (if you go with a no hood design you can have an added curve at the top just for neck support) – I think this makes monkey feel more stable so she goes to sleep really easily in the Madame GooGoo carrier. The Ergo baby carrier costs between £70 and £160 depending on the style you go for – I have other friends who use it and from what I gather it’s a great baby carrier from newborn when you’re carrying baby on your front, especially when they compared it to the Baby Bjorn. However for me it just didn’t match up to the quality of Aga’s wonderful creations, it can cost more and you don’t get the awesome individuality that comes with all the choices of fabric you get with Madame GooGoo carriers. I’d give the Ergo Carrier 7/10. Good for wee ones, not so good for toddlers.  My friends may disagree with this but their babies are still wee, I reckon once they get bigger they might have the same issues I did with it.


Sorry about the poor quality image – it’s quite hard to take a back selfie in the mirror!

Conclusion: You may be wondering why on earth someone would try as many carriers as this – why not just give up and stick with a pram? I’ve been wondering this myself as I write this and actually see how many carriers I’ve used. However, there’s something special about carrying your baby about, it creates a great bond and closeness you just don’t get with a pram. Also it genuinely is so much easier (especially if you live in a block of flats, or a big city, or anywhere with steps) to just get them in the carrier and leave. In Glasgow it rains a lot – monkey hates the rain cover and I also get wet, usually the wind blows my hood down and I don’t like losing my peripheral vision so this means with the pram we both get wet. Using a carrier, means I use a big umbrella and we both stay nice and dry. It also means we can easily go to places with stairs (hidden gem restaurants that always seem to be in a basement). We can go to a museum and now she’s running round I can just run with her rather than trundle after her with the cumbersome pushchair. Buses, subway systems and any transport is loads easier too. The only thing I use the pram for now is if I go to the supermarket with her as it’s good to stash heavy stuff under, but I try and do those trips when she’s at nursery to be honest! If travelling about I’m guessing baby carriers are the way forward. Madame GooGoo carriers would be perfect – comfy for parents and babies and they can be stored in a bag when not in use (unlike the hiking carrier style). You may also wonder what I would do if I had all this knowledge right at the start… I think, (because I hate to be beaten) I would possibly try and master the woven/stretchy wrap to start with. But be warned , if you go this route it WILL take time and patience. It will be worth practising around the house to start with, only when baby is in a calm mood. Then when you’re a seasoned user, venture outside. I’d then get the woven wrap converted into a Madame GooGoo full buckle carrier  as this is a service she offers. If I didn’t go that route I would get a Madame GooGoo normal mei tai at the start (she also makes these – the woman is a genius I promise) then get the full buckle style when baby is big enough for back wearing. I’m not sure I’d bother with a pram next time as I never use it anymore! I really hope this has been useful to people anyway and happy baby wearing!!

English Escapes – Carlisle and Hadrian’s Wall

Some beautiful sumptuous views at the back of Birdoswald Fort

Some beautiful sumptuous views at the back of Birdoswald Fort – fabulous clouds here as well if like me, you’re a fan of weather systems.

I went for a little break down to Carlisle with family last weekend – there were 4 adults and 4 kids all under 10. In my opinion Carlisle has got to be one of the top places to go with that age range, especially if you catch some good weather which we did. If you don’t know much about the area then Carlisle is a city with a large castle, surrounded by lots of Roman history, beautiful countryside and not far from The Lake District. Hadrian’s Wall runs through it and goes right along to Newcastle and there’s various Roman forts, bits of ruins and museums along the

Hadrian's Wall

Hadrian’s Wall


My little girl is a bit too young to appreciate all the educational stuff but I’ve bookmarked a lot of what we did for some future homeschooling visits later down the line. It real is a perfect setting to see history in action. The attractions in the area like the Castles and forts are all part of the English Heritage group – a bit like the National Trust really. If you know you’re going to be able to visit a lot of the English Heritage sites then it would definitely be worthwhile to get an annual membership; especially if you’re a larger family as adults gain discounted entry and kids under 19 go free (although children under 5 always go free). 

If you need to stay in Carlisle we got a really good deal at the Premier Inn – I’m sure there’s more B&B’s and historic settings to stay at but it was great value and they’re very kid friendly with a good bar and restaurant. Also nearby there’s a Brewyer’s Fayre just down the motorway which has a great Wacky Warehouse attached that the kids can go mad in for no extra price. I was impressed by what you got for your money on the menu here too – if you’re looking to do a family break and keep to a budget there’s plenty to find

Hadrian's Wall (again)!

Hadrian’s Wall (again)!

We went round Carlisle Castle first as soon as we arrived- it’s a large place with still operational army barracks. Some of it’s in ruins but most is intact with a good amount of information on display and also there are some real performances by people in costume during the holidays. They re-enacted scenes from history with the kids during the ‘Kings and Queens’ weekend and the kids got some cheap Roman swords and shields in the gift shop that kept them amused for the whole break – my wee monkey even got her own foam sword that I’m still getting whacked with on a regular basis, which she of course finds hilarious 🙂

The following day we headed off to find some of Hadrian’s Wall that we could walk along and to hunt out Birdoswald Roman Fort (again, part of the English heritage group). There’s a warrior school on during the holidays that costs an extra pound per child. The kids get dressed up and were taught battle techniques and fighting styles and they got to make masks and other crafty things. They really loved all of this. You can then walk round the fort and see loads of information about the Roman and viking history. If you’re looking for

More stunning countryside views at Birdoswald Fort

More stunning countryside views at Birdoswald Fort

something even more educational then there’s 2 further sites further along from Birdoswald called the Roman Vindolanda Fort & Museum and The Roman Army Museum. These are basically the definitive roman experience for kids and I will definitely be taking my monkey back when she’s bigger. There’s a high amount of Roman artefacts on display here, fantastic 3D re-enactment of battles, and the building of the wall, tons of activities for kids such as writing messages home in the traditional roman style and plotting the conquest of Britain. If you’re an adult or older child with a keen interest in history and archaeology you can even volunteer to help excavate the ruins from April – September. And this is all the stuff I’ve just read about as we didn’t even go!! I think if you go to Hadrian’s Wall in Carlisle and want to investigate the Roman history then this is the place to go to – we’d just run out of time and had already done

Talkin Tarn - views to inspire poetry!

Talkin Tarn – views to inspire poetry… and look at those clouds again!

Birdoswald and we were on a bit of a budget. If it was one or the other I’d say skip Birdoswald and go straight to the Roman Vindolanda. 

Anyway, on the way back to the city we stopped at Talkin Tarn for a picnic and ice cream and the bigger kids managed to fit in a row boat trip too. This tarn has a variety of watersports on offer including one of those transparent inflatable balls you go in and try to run around on the water – although in reality I saw lots of people take 2 steps and fall over and not manage to get back up again. This was quite fun to watch but possibly not as fun to do so more of a spectator sport 🙂 I can’t remember the exact pricing (sorry) but it wasn’t extortionate. There was also an enclosed kids playground, an area set up for lots of bird feeding and you

Feeding the birds at Talkin Tarn

Feeding the birds at Talkin Tarn

can buy proper bird feed (not bread) cheaply and feed the ducks – this was of course the highlight of monkey’s day. 

The following day we nipped to Ullswater to see The Lakes – we unfortunately didn’t have time to go on the wee steamer boat as it’s a 140 minute round trip but we did go to Pooley Bridge and have a very nice ice cream! Bare in mind that if you do want to go on the steamer then the queues were huge as it’s an extremely popular tourist destination. I’d investigate buying tickets in advance if I went again. 

So that was our little 3 day trip to Carlisle – the place is enriched with local ancient history and you’ll be rewarded with some stunning views of classic British countryside whichever direction you go in out of Carlisle. Definitely somewhere go to if you have the chance and particularly great for children so they can really engage with history outside of the classroom in a much more inspiring way. If you go as adults though, there’s plenty of really good walks of varying difficulty and lots of country pubs and restaurants to rest and recuperate along the way!

Once again, more stunning views of the lakes at Ullswater

Once again, more stunning views of the lakes at Ullswater

Moving Day: The Ins and Outs of Moving Your Site

Handy tips for the future …..

The Daily Post

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I started my first blog when I was 25 and headed off on a backpacking trip across Southeast Asia. I wanted to keep a record of my travels for my friends and families to enjoy, and I chose Blogger as my platform.

Blogging turned out to be so much fun that I decided to keep it up when I got home, but by that time, I knew more about what I was looking for in a platform, and so I started my second blog on WordPress.com. (Granted, I’m a bit biased now, but this was years before I worked here, I promise.)

Years later, my new WordPress.com blog had come to feel like my online home, and I was sad that my old travel posts were lingering on a blog elsewhere that I never looked at. Enter the importer.

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Tefl approved…. (technically)!

approvedI have now finished my 120 hour online TEFL course! I’m of course extremely happy about this; I’m now officially qualified to teach English as a foreign language. BUT…. there’s always a but isn’t there? I say ‘technically’ in my title because doing the online course means I’ve had no actual teaching practice.

I’ve loved the course and I don’t want to make it seem like I’m criticising the TEFL qualification; however, there are some big downsides to doing the course completely online. I think I’d be incredibly nervous before teaching a lesson for starters. Also there were lots of grammar related questions/problems I had, that really needed the presence of a proper instructor to solve. Anyone who has looked even briefly at the structure of English grammar can attest to how complicated we seem to have made our system. But (yes there’s a 2nd more positive ‘but’)… I feel that I made the right choice and I will stick to my original plan. If you’ve been reading the blog for a while you will know that I planned on doing the online course to familiarise myself with the grammar and to get a feel for what’s expected of me before applying to do the more formal CELTA qualification at the university I currently study. I’m glad I did it this way round. I now have a rudimentary understanding of grammar. Although I will say that if I was only planning on doing this course then jumping straight into teaching, I would need some immense organisational skills to fully prep all my lessons in advance in order to make sure I could answer any questions my students had. 

On saying that, I think preparation and advance planning and a huge amount of lesson plans and worksheets all done in advance of the lessons will be key to being a good EFL teacher. I can see why there’s so many complaints about of terrible quality of teaching. If you’re just bumming around and do the TEFL course as a thing to make money, but it’s not something you put any effort, energy or passion into, then you will be a terrible teacher. You will also end up hating your job as much as the students hate you. Sorry, I know that sounds harsh but having done the course I know that it’s completely true… you only have to read some forum and blog posts to know the level of appalling teaching that’s out there and I think this is the reason why. They’ve gone into it thinking it’ll be a doss and it couldn’t be further from the truth.

I think you could do the online course and then build up lots of experience through voluntary work if you wanted. This could be a viable option for anyone who can’t afford the far higher price of the CELTA course. I think I’ll try and do some voluntary stuff anyway as it will help me to get over those initial jitters about standing in front of a class, and it would be nice to have experience before accepting a proper job too. The online course is pretty easy, I don’t want to belittle anyone who found it hard… by that I mean that with a bit of effort I think most people will find it manageable and would be able to complete it. The assignments start off as multiple choice quizzes on the grammar and then build up to written assignments you submit for proper marking. However, these begin as small, manageable quick pieces of work and it’s only the final 3-4 assignments that pose a challenge in any way. These last ones do require you to apply what you’ve been taught and to prepare some full lessons from start to finish. They take time and care and are worth doing well, after all this is what you’ll be doing as a teacher!

Once you’ve done the course you’ll find that along the way, you’ve had to do so much research you’ll have hopefully built up some great resource links from external websites – these will be a huge help when actually teaching. One of the best I’ve found to date is the great blog found here on WordPress called ‘tefltastic’ – http://www.tefltastic.wordpress.com there’s tons of resources, worksheets and lesson planning advice and tips along with a large amount of activity ideas. There’s also hundreds of activity worksheets available to download. Well worth a look! The tefl community is in general very helpful and inclusive – everyone has been in that starter position before, so I think that makes everyone really willing to help and create an open community of sharing when it comes to academic resources. 

Below are some good websites I’ve found during the duration of my course:

http://www.teachingenglish.org.uk This is a BBC/British council site offering loads of tips and lesson plan ideas along with grammar help.

http://www.teflteachertraining.com is a great blog by Ted, offering untold amounts of advice and help on all things TEFL

http://www.bbc.co.uk/worldservice/learningenglish/ A good resource if you need some grammar explained in plain english whilst completing the course. It helps to fill in some of the gaps that are there in the TEFL course book.

http://www.onestopenglish.com Again, this is a good site for filling in some of the gaps, the TEFL course is OK but I must admit I did find some explanatory gaps in their books. Although I suppose a bit of self-study is never a bad thing either!

http://www.tefl.net A general resource and advice site

http://www.businessdictionary.com This is a great resource to use for vocabulary you might need in a business english class, providing definitions and also ideas around which to plan your business english lessons.

I’m planning on continuing to post any useful information I find including useful resource sites, so keep an eye out if you find this kind of stuff useful. I’m also hoping to get a little site started up with my own worksheets and lesson plans etc once I actually start teaching. Although this will be a couple of years down the line save for some voluntary work. It is most definitely in the pipeline though – you can hold me to it! 

I just want to end by saying that the TEFL course provided by http://www.tefl.org.uk was well worth the money. Although I found some of the instructions to be a little bit ambiguous I did get through it with a grade point average well over 90%. They also marked all my assignments in the agreed timeframe and gave me advice when I asked for it. I’m very glad I did this, and I think it will be extremely valuable when I do the CELTA to have had access to the knowledge and the lesson plans. And if you are very self driven and motivated you could definitely get along into teaching without the CELTA – but I would suggest doing a substantial amount of voluntary work if you can to get the experience and to put into practice all the theory you have been taught. Also it’s worth remembering that knowledge of the subject is only one part of what it takes to be a good teacher and that will come more easily the more you do it – however what really matters are the qualities employers and students will look for :

tefl qualities

Happy TEFL-ing guys, I can’t wait to actually get going with my travels and put my knowledge into practice!

Somewhere I’ve been twice – Paris!

The Eiffel Tower at night - a must see.

The Eiffel Tower at night – a must see.

I’ve been lucky enough to go to Paris twice now; I do think Paris is somewhere that probably gets better with experience so the more you go the better it is.

There’s a few reasons for this: firstly, it’s such a hugely popular city with tourists that every single tourist attraction is completely mobbed and it takes hours to do the thing you want to do. Queues are enormous for everything by about 10am sometimes even earlier. My recommendation is that you go for a few days and pick one thing to do each day; get to the attraction at the latest 9am and this way you will miss most of the stress (hopefully).

Secondly, the French and specifically Parisians aren’t overly helpful or that keen on tourists. I was here whilst heavily pregnant and will never forget having a large amount of people stand around and watch me struggle up 3 flights of stairs with a heavy suitcase and not one person offered to help. I ended up pulling a muscle all the way across my bump and had a night in hospital back in the UK because they were worried about the pain I was in. Now I’m possibly doing the French a bit of a disservice here, I suspect every major city in the world is the same but they do have their own brand of curtness. One way to combat this is to make sure you attempt to speak some french (this is the same wherever you are actually – an attempt at the local language is a must but more so here than anywhere else I’ve been). I find it always softens people’s attitude. Some of the best help we had was actually from a woman living in Paris who came from elsewhere in the world – so it might be an idea to ask seasoned expats for advice if you can spot them.

The Arc De Triomphe

The Arc De Triomphe

Thirdly, don’t expect anything to work quite the way it should. Don’t take timetables at face value or rely on anything being open even if it explicitly states it is open or will be open it is worth doing more research to save yourself a lot of stress and disappointment (more on this later when I chat about our adventurous trip to the Asterix Theme Park).

Eat often and take lots of leisurely breaks in coffee shops, tip well and be prepared to spend more money than you want to. Don’t do anything in a rush (hence the one trip a day rule). It’s possible to do 2 or 3 different tourist attractions in a  day but when I say do 1 at 9am, i mean do a big one so you could go and climb the Eiffel Tower at 9am then have some food and stroll along The Seine to see the exterior of the Notre Dame Cathedral. However

The Sacre Coeur - 'sacred heart'

The Sacre Coeur – ‘sacred heart’

if you’re desperate to go inside the cathedral then you will have to queue. I was happy just to see the outside although I had been into the Sacre Coeur. Not being religious in any way meant I was happy to just appreciate the magnificent architecture from afar I guess.

If you can follow these rough guidelines then you’ll probably have a great time without feeling too frazzled on your return. Also it might be worth thinking to yourself that Paris can’t really be done in one long weekend and if you relax in the knowledge that you’ll go back once or twice more the desperation to ‘see everything’ goes away. I still have to go back and

The Louvre (of course)!

The Louvre (of course)!

enter the catacombs – the queue was enormous on my 1st trip out there every time we went and the second time I was there I was heavily pregnant so it wasn’t really the best option for me!

Over the course of the two trips I’ve climbed the Eiffel Tower, been inside the Sacre Coeur, wondered round and bought artwork from Montmartre, seen the Notre Dame cathedral, been to The Asterix Theme Park and ridden the biggest wooden roller coaster in Europe, I saw the Tower lit up at night, wandered through some beautiful gardens and eaten and had coffee at Les Editeurs (frequented by Simone De Beauvoir and Satre so a must for any philosophy student) and La Rotonde

A philosophical kind of a cafe ...

A philosophical kind of a cafe …

(frequented by all the artists years ago). I’ve wandered up the Champs Elysees and seen the Arc De Triomphe and had a fabulous night out at Moulin Rouge.  The second trip was far less stressful and this was because I’d done all the big touristy things the first time round so actually spent more time just sitting down and enjoying Paris, wandering through the streets, people watching and appreciating the architecture down the residential streets.

If you’re like me and a fan of theme parks and roller coasters then the Asterix Theme Park is a must – as mentioned it’s home to the largest

Not the wooden one, but a jaw rattling proper old fashioned coaster that managed to crack my friends tooth.

Not the wooden one, but a jaw rattling proper old fashioned coaster that managed to crack my friends tooth.

wooden roller coaster in Europe, but it’s also much quieter these days as Disney World gets the biggest chunk of the revenue. It’s kind of vintage in its appeal which I like. It was a bit of a nightmare to get there; the bus didn’t show up (there should be a scheduled bus to the park each day but well, it’s France). We were very lucky that a seasoned expat turned up to take her niece there and she guided as through the subway system, train and bus system to finally get to the park and we were lucky that the scheduled bus took us home despite either not turing up on the outward journey or leaving early (we never found out which it was).

Another must is a trip to one of the big shows. We opted for Moulin Rouge as we were lucky enough to wrangle guest list. We still had to bribe the doorman to skip the ginormous queue in,

My glamorous outfit that helped us skip the queue :)

My glamorous outfit that helped us skip the queue for Moulin Rouge

but apparently he appreciated my outfit (and a big tip) so we were ushered through. The show itself is fantastic and you will be extremely entertained (if you like that sort of thing). I managed to drink a couple of bottles of champagne by myself as my friend isn’t a big bubbly drinker, however he was supremely amused at seeing me completely drunk, whilst dressed up to the nines on the streets of Paris. One of my best nights out to date 🙂

Really there’s not much else to add, I’d love to go back and do a cruise down the Seine at night, enter the Catacombs (finally) and maybe go inside Notre Dame. I’ve also not managed to get into the Louvre as the queues were just monumental and I’ve not got much patience for that unless it’s something I’ve set my heart on. But again, if you went and turned up at 9am to the Louvre it would probably be OK in terms of queue times. I also wouldn’t say no to a trip to Disneyland so I reckon I’ll head back with my little monkey when she’s a bit older (kids are such a great excuse to do all the really fun things 🙂 )


Also as an added footnote – they serve a JD and coke in a typically fabulous and sophisticated way which I loved…..

The French way to serve Jack Daniels and Coke - enchante!

The French way to serve Jack Daniels and Coke – enchante!